Unconditional Love- exist ?

When you are in your growing age you love to believe in existence of unconditional love and to believe in rosy garden of pure love without any thorn of expectaion.You think that some relationships are there for you only and can't turn their back in any season.

Wait.......

As you move ahead in your life you are hit with some harsh but real situations which provide you chance to pause and ponder  over the "Unconditional love theory."Still you manage to believe in theory once again with no change ( might be half heartedly this time),but yes it is believed by you .Reason ? 

Reason might be your so called positive thoughts or hopes or your strong belief in your unique variety of luck.So you keep on searching and accumulating examples of your life to prove the theory right.

So what next?

Next the life decides to shower some more situations on you ,where you have to behave or work certain things in certain ways to assure, to  exhibit ,to showcase your love towards your loved ones.And any refusal or question mark raises many eyebrows and taken as non love gesture.

These repeated situations compel you to dethrone your unconditional love theory and then the real understanding of life bangs on you where you find yourself all alone amidst of loved ones.

And when you look back you find the story that most of the time you had to prove your love by accepting rules or choices of others without your own acceptance in order to validate your love towards them (conditions applied😘)

These bitter - sour bunches of experience happened to you to turn you into a mature clad with exact clarity of "Conditional love theory."

Though this new belief system is not so palatable,but if it is included judiousely in  life ,you learn to live the life with ease ,without any expectations from any of the surrounding thread.

तो मुस्कुराइए आपने ज़िंदगी का एक बेहतर सबक सीख लिया है,तो चलते रहिए जनाब

Some relevant Hindi songs if you remember other than below one.,can be shared with me..

Ekla chalo re ......