We all have our own
virtual world with our pet enemies, who keep on distracting us every now and
then - draining our precious energy and time.
On the basis of some real-time
unpleasant experiences with some people, our unconscious mind assumes and accepts
them as our virtual enemies.
Most suitable and self
explanatory example is relationship between a daughter-in-law and mother-in-law.
Most of the time they take each other as an enemy – reason behind may be some
bad experiences. But most of the time, it is prejudiced mindset (credit goes to
our society). So, things become bitter and bitter with the passing time.
In some situations, it
might be one sided affair! And the other person might be completely unaware of
this negative development from your side.
Then, why to waste the
energy on such virtual mind stories? Better to keep the mind off from such
negative thoughts by :-
- Deliberately
downsizing them into insignificant/unsubstantial issues in your thought
process.
- Diverting
or /concentrating toward some positive people/things in life.
-If
you are not sure about his/her status for you, use the tool of communication –
because, many-a-times, a communication gap or out-of-the-touch situation makes
the relationship sour, and we are unknowingly forced into the negativity.
-You
can also treat them as potential competitors and can keep upgrading yourself to
outsmart.
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Use a pencil to write
your thoughts, of course, with an eraser allowed to interfere and undo our
virtual wrongdoings,
Seema
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