Many of us remain unaware about the importance of non verbal cues of a person.We just concentrates on what's being said by a person. We keep on entangled among tone, word selection, dialect chosen to communicate and sometimes spelling mistakes if its a presentation.
Don't you think that we should be able to read in between the lines.We need to master the art of pure observation, that too with three dimensional or 360 degree view.This art needs good exposure of the communication with different types of the people initially and then to good co relational practices to master the art of understanding non verbal cues(things which are not said but still imparted during the communication).
A person may appear ostensibly polite but our antenna should be able to catch the satire/taunt/ hidden intentions behind the politeness of words.It requires strong senses, bouquet of experiences and silent observational vision.
One can always wrap his/her feelings in a beautiful bouquet of words to offer but he/she can't hide the the intentions or real feelings because its bound to brim over by non verbal cues of the body imparted while he/she is busy in speaking.
IF you want to appear stable and composed during a talk ,take care of not only to your words and tone but also about your body language so that all these go hand in hand in very same direction and people are not confused about your words and actions-A prerequisite for better communication and comprehension.
Seema
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