Human brain has become too much complicated due to less physical work and more leisure time to spend on social media that too algorithm driven.

Your media feeds are reinforcing your thought process irrespective of their quality and you are stuck in a vicious loop ,unable to think or come out of that trap.You are unaware but you are weakened with these loops and your thinking process is sabotaged .

Theory of Red and Green Flags in relationship

     Story of Red and Green Flags in relationship

Above is the commonly discussed topic now a days on social media, where lots of suggestions/advices are pouring in to identify the color of the flag in a relationship and to respond accordingly.But we forget one thing that every human is combination of grey and white and which color will dominate is decided by many factors like situation ,person involved , environment, stress and

A person can show red flag at any point of time and the same person can show green flag at other time so it doesn't mean that you start thinking to detach from a relationship after exposure to unwanted behaviour .These are part and parcels of any relationship and you have to take them as it is.

Too much thinking destroys a relationship in long run, better to remain focused on yourself and your behaviour and to ignore the nuances of someone's behaviour.

Remember human mind is too complicated and unpredictable so refrain yourself to indulge in mess ,enjoy the life given and let the things happen in your life and try to solve the puzzle at your best level when its there actually.

Over thinking, over expectation and over-ownership in a relationship actually destroys chemistry and emotionality of a relationship.

We dont know but social media is trying to spoon feed us on every bit area of our 💑 life, so try to make a distance from it and allow your heart and brain to utilise theirs potential as per their past experiences not by social media reel scrolling experiences.

consuming or consumed?

People think that they are consuming social media with free data,but in reality we are consumed by social media and that too with heavy payments of your life.

Everybody is running because every other is running.

Take a pause

Figure out your reason of running 

                       And

Plan the run well before you start

Attitude versus Gratitude

You should not be arrogant for possession of things or people or luxury you have,bcz it's a matter of gratitude not of attitude

Seema

Frustration

When you are ready for a befitting reply in a conversation,

When you are dissatisfied with yourself

When you are jealous of someone

When you are angry with some one

When you are anxious without a reason

When you feel low , energy less

Go get a visit of introspection

Try to search the real reason of your unhappiness,

Try to dig the broken dreams and unfulfilled wishes of yours

You will find number of reasons of your frustration

When you find any of them,

Try to make a picture with these  broken pieces which can give you a sense of productivity ,sense of fulfillment and sense of Joy .

SR

DO YOU DARE TO RESUME?

DO YOU DARE TO RESUME?

In the life, we all have our own share of dreams/ wishes. Some of them are small, or are bigger. We always want to fulfil them one fine day.

But do we always succeed to attain some or all of the them?

I think, answer will be a big No!

In most of the cases, our daily routine does not allow us to do something else/new (until and unless we are passionate about the same). 

Many times we manage to steal an opportunity to initiate them, but in long run, we face difficulty to keep it continued, due to our ever-changing priority lists.

Everyone may have their own reasons for initiation /discontinuation- like lack of time, or lack of persuasion, or fading interest. But the one and only basic element missing is, sufficient daring to RESUME. Some of us, mostly make wishes only, never-ever step forward to make it real , under the fear, that they would not be able to complete it. So, they prefer to wait for the right time to begin the work on that particular time (that never happens actually ).

So, how can we achieve our goal/dream or how can we overcome the fear of incompletion of task?

The answer is, to keep the thread in the hand always – means, to remain in touch with your dream/wish. So that , it gets imbibed/interwoven in your life. It must be like a background music , that keeps on playing in your heart and mind, making you aware of its existence and attracting you towards it.

You can lower the volume of music at times, or allow it to be louder in free schedule, but never let it to be silent/ dormant. There is a saying, “to be in touch is good for any relationship.”

So, keep your relationship intact and live with your wish/dream /goal and keep on striving to get it, sometimes with small steps, or sometimes with big leaps. 

One sunny day, it would MATERIALIZE or ACTUATE for the sure.